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Dad
Jun 14, 2013 14:45:39 GMT
Post by kiddo990 on Jun 14, 2013 14:45:39 GMT
Hey, in my other thread I sorta touched off the subject but because I got feedback so soon of the Admin I've decided to go all out here and ask for a bit of advice on this situation.
As I said, me and my dad moved closer to the city at Christmas so he could be closer to work, I didn't really mind but it was a bit of a bummer moving away from my friends and school and stuff.
I love my dad and all that but he seems to be sooo busy lately that I hardly ever get to talk to him. We used to be really close when we lived in the other house but now it's completely changed. I usually don't see him until he's finished work which could be 9 or 10pm.
I stay with my grandparents usually or my brother at home but I miss staying with my dad. He keeps telling me that it will only be for a while and then it will get back to normal but it's six months later and it's still not normal.
I know I sound like a Daddies Boy here but I suppose I am, he's like my best mate and my dad so by not really getting to see him it's pretty bad.
Sorry for ranting but just needed to get it out there.
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Dad
Jun 14, 2013 15:03:49 GMT
Post by Admin on Jun 14, 2013 15:03:49 GMT
Hey Kiddo990,
You seem to be going through a tough time at the moment with school, friends and family. When it comes to working, sometimes it's hard for your parents or parent to try to juggle everything at once. It's understandable that you're feeling the way you are at the moment and I'm sure your Dad is feeling pretty bad as well but all you can do right now is wait.
It will get better but it might take some time, think about the situation from all angles, it would be pretty tough to change from having a great relationship with your son, to just seeing him rarely, but my guess is that it's for the best interests of the family right now.
You could try talking to you Dad again and explain everything in detail but when it comes to work, it's not always your Dad's decision, so don't be too hard on him and eventually it should get back to normal.
I actually think it's a good thing that you class yourself as a Daddies Boy, a lot of teenagers don't really get along with their parents so it's always good to find the ones that do.
I hope this helps you and any other questions, feel free to post them.
Admin
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Dad
May 26, 2018 9:29:47 GMT
Post by Ben on May 26, 2018 9:29:47 GMT
Hi kiddo, how are you doing right now and how did you manage to get through it, because I'm having a hard time with my dad too right now. Talking openly is very hard for me. I think I have also so much buried inside what makes it even harder. Ben
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Dad
May 26, 2018 9:39:07 GMT
Post by hannah on May 26, 2018 9:39:07 GMT
Hello, oh no - your family should always be a safe haven but unfortunately there are many problems and a lot of fighting involved very often. I also know how it is when you are angry and sad. It is important to let go and be open with your family. Tell them what you are feeling and thinking, what makes you sad and what you need. I don't know but maybe it might help you too to get involved with tarot readings, I really enjoy it and reading my tarot cards makes me stronger. You can have a try on astrosofa.com. What also might help you is to start doing sports, you can get everything out and sometimes it is good to go to your limits. I hope everything is going to be fine for you, but I'm pretty sure about it! Sending you positive vibes, Hannah
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Dad
May 26, 2018 9:41:50 GMT
Post by Ben on May 26, 2018 9:41:50 GMT
Thank you a lot for your supporting words Hannah! I'm going to give it a try, Ben
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